I talk about strength training almost every dayāat my clinic, the rehab center where I work part-time, and even in casual chats with friends. And itās not just because itās part of my job; I genuinely believe in it.
I only started taking it seriously about a year ago. Since then, Iāve been training at least once a week, sometimes twice, with some cardio and mobility work mixed in. (Iām still prepping for a marathon next year, so cardio has my main focus.)
Iām still figuring out what routine works best for me, how often to train, which exercises suit my body, and diving deeper into nutritionāwhich, honestly, Iām still learning. But one thing is already crystal clear: strength training is a game-changer.
The reason I started? Simple: I want a strong āold-lady body.ā Sounds funny, but I mean it. My grandmother fractured her femur at 89āand the doctors were genuinely surprised at how muscular her leg was. She stayed independent until 92. Thatās the kind of future I want for myself.
Since adding strength training, Iāve noticed big changes. I feel better overall, eat better, sleep better, and have more energy throughout the dayāeven after long shifts. Iām less stressed, my mood is more stable, and my body just moves more comfortably. And yes, lifting something heavy and seeing people impressed? Thatās a confidence boost. (Glowing skin is a nice bonus, too.)
A lot of women tell me, āI donāt want to get too bulky.ā Let me be clearāyou wonāt. Saying āIām afraid of getting too muscularā is like saying āIām afraid of accidentally becoming a billionaire.ā It takes an insane amount of effort, strategy, and dedication to even get close.
Hereās the truth: Iāve never met anyone who regretted making their health a priority. Sure, it takes effort to exercise consistently and eat well. But you know whatās really hard? Feeling constantly exhausted, relying on daily medication, hating how your body feels, or facing preventable health issues.
Even knowing this, many people struggle to start. So let me offer another perspective.
I had a patient recently who wanted to get strongerānot just for herself, but for her grandchildren. And Iāve heard this from many parents and grandparents: wanting to stay active for their kids. Thatās powerful.
You need strength to lift your child onto a climbing frame, go sledding, chase a toddler across the playground, or get up off the floor before they bolt off again.
When I worked as a ski instructor, I saw firsthand how kids sometimes struggle with coordinationānot because theyāre incapable, but because their parents canāt move with them.
You might be willing to die for your kids⦠but would you live for them? Would you move for them? Stay strong for them?
Because limited strength doesnāt just make life harder for youāit limits your childās opportunities too. Something to think about next time youāre tempted to skip a workout.
And thereās another reason to care about strengthāa serious one.
At work, we had a first aid training and practiced CPR on a dummy. Most people couldnāt even complete one proper cycle of 30 chest compressions. And in real life, you usually need 4ā5 cycles before switching. Many couldnāt push deep enough to be effective.
Scary, right?
Hereās the deal: strength isnāt just about appearance. Itās about living. Itās being ready for lifeās unexpected moments, staying independent as you age, showing up for your kids, and maybeāeven saving a life one day.
Still think strength training is just for bodybuilders?
I can assure you: every movement can be broken down to the basics so that literally anyone can do it. It may look different for a 25-year-old athlete versus an 85-year-old grandmother, but strength training is possible for everyone. I practice it every day with every patient, adapting it to their level and needs.
Here is what I do:
š§Ŗ Letās Experiment
Do strength training.
Start simple, start today, and start for life.
You donāt need a perfect plan, a fancy gym, or years of experience. What matters is consistency, not perfection. Every movement you make now builds the foundation for strength, independence, and resilienceāboth for yourself and the people who rely on you.
šÆ Try This:
- Start with basics. Choose 3ā5 exercises from these core movements:
- Squats (use a chair if needed)
- Step-ups or lunges (use a handrail if needed)
- Calf raises (support your upper body if needed)
- Push-ups (elevated if needed)
- Pull-ups (with assistance if needed)
- Deadlifts (household items work fine)
- Adjust intensity. Make each exercise easier or harder depending on your levelāprogress gradually.
- Move daily. Walk 15ā30 minutes every day. Itās simple, free, and profoundly effective for both mind and body.
- Track consistency, not perfection. Focus on showing up. Count the days you moved rather than how perfectly you performed each exercise.
š§ Final Thought:
You donāt need to be great to beginābut you do need to begin to get great. Start now, and your future selfāand everyone you care forāwill thank you.
Keep it simple, stay curious, and keep learningāyouāve got this.
Take care,
Carina š¦
š My Actionable Advice
Do strength training. Donāt overthink it. Donāt wait until life gets less busy. Donāt wait until you āknow more.ā Just start.
It doesnāt have to be perfect. It doesnāt have to be pretty. Youāll gain knowledge along the way. You will make mistakes. You might even get a small injury now and then. And thatās okay. Itās all part of the process.
There are thousands of videos and programs out there, but keep it simple. You donāt need a fancy plan. You donāt need a gym membership. You just need to move.
Here are the exercises I teach to nearly all of my patients ā whether theyāre 12 or 85:
- Squats
- Step-ups & step-downs (or lunges ā forward or backward)
- Calf raises
- Push-ups (elevated on a table or bench if needed)
- Pull-ups (with ground contact or using a sturdy table)
- Deadlifts (yes, even with household items if you donāt have weights)
Every one of these exercises can be made easier or harder depending on your level. These basics will take you far ā and theyāre more than enough to start building a stronger, more resilient body.
And one more thing: Walk. Every. Day.
Itās underrated, free, and one of the best habits you can build for both mental and physical health. Even just 15ā30 minutes makes a difference.
You donāt need to be great to begin. But you do need to begin to get great.
Stay inquisitiveāit’s the spark that fuels discovery.
Yours,
Carina š¦

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